I’ve just reconnected with an old flame. I won’t be able to see him again for a couple months because of work commitments. Will I see him after that, will we rekindle our relationship? I’m ready, but I’m not sure he is. How should I proceed while I am away?
Hopeful but nervous, G.
You have a connection that is as old as time and has the potential now to manifest in a variety of ways and your souls will always know one another. The question is now, what to do with that connection?
For the time being, the best advice we can give you is to proceed as you were the day before. You do you. Forget about what just happened. The past, even this recent event, is the past. The future is unwritten. Each day changes and there is no playbook anymore on earth – this is part of the new dimension you are living in! All bets are off. Karmic ties are over, in the grand sense and scheme of things. This means that any and all karmic issues being played out now on earth are part of the OLD PROGRAMMING – holdovers from the old ways, but no longer actually holding any real sway or connection over your path now. You can do whatever you want. Be whatever you want.
Your old flame is still figuring this out. He carries old baggage from old destinations that he no longer needs, yet can’t quite figure out where to drop off. Your connection is not old baggage, but because it feels familiar and easy, you are a tempting place for him to play with the idea of “unloading”. But your space is sacred, an extension of your energy. Do not allow this sort of energy to clutter up your space. Keep it clean. Keep it sacred. Keep it true to you. When you see him again, keep it clear. When you’re apart, keep it clear. This is part of what we mean by you do you.
Males on your planet sometimes have a harder time shifting and shedding (no surprise, since your bodies as women train you to shift and shed from a young age), and so it can be harder for them to release their hold on the old karma, on the non-crystalline vibrations of fear, abandonment, anger, loss, and discomfort. You can see this playing out on a grand scheme in workshops, in your country and throughout the world. Women are leading the way. They aren’t afraid to say what needs to be said and are calling out the old ways wherever they see them. Of course, it is hardest to apply this crystalline vision to one’s own life and perceptions, which is why “doing you” can be the hardest thing of all.
But you are there. You know how to do this.
You had a wonderful special re-connection with a beloved soul. Take that joy and move forward through the coming days with a sense of freedom and joyful abandon, knowing that all things are beautiful, all things are wonder-full, and all things are GOOD. When you connect again with his flame, share the wonder you are experiencing, keep it light and keep the attention on the beauty of life. This will keep his own attention where it needs to be, making it easier for him to leave his baggage elsewhere, so full of wonder that he doesn’t even notice he’s finally left it behind.
It is time for all humans not just to have okay days, or even good days, but more days of inspired joy than anything else. Inspired joy in the everyday, in the mundane, in the fathomless beauty of the “ordinary” for the ordinary is source and source is the perfection of being and YOU are the perfection of being and one with source and one with all and one with joy.
You do you. You do Source.
Be the source.
You are blessed.