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Overcoming Fear – How to Get Your Life Back Together

Hi Eden,
I feel as if my life is falling apart.  I’m in my sixties, married to mean, belittling person with no money of my own or ability to drive. My home crafting business used to thrive but has fizzled out. I am not physically well, and I care for a large number of feral cats who keep having kittens. I can’t catch them all, and even if I could, I can’t afford to spay any more of them than I already have.
I’m pretty much alone. I haven’t any family or friends.
Any help you can give will be deeply appreciated.
Thank you, N.

Dearest N.,

You are not alone. We see you. We hear you. We love you. And we would say to you that you do not have to do this all alone. You have given so much of yourself, for so long, that you have become an empty cup. For so long, you have cared for everyone else, and done so little for yourself. So the first thing we want you to do is to take some time out today, tomorrow, every day this week and do something that makes you happy. Something you love. Relax. Take a bath. Eat chocolate. Read a romance novel. Window shop. Walk in the woods. Whatever it is that will nurture your soul, do that. That’s step one.

Step two. Call in your angels. Call in your guides. Ask them for what you are needing, ask them for help. Say it out load. Mean it. Call to them. Once you have done that, call in your earth angels. Reach out to your community for help. Find a local no-kill shelter and ask them for help catching the mother cat and spaying her. Re-home the cats you can let go of. Keep the ones that mean everything to you. There are people out there who care as much these cats as you do. Connect with them. Let them help you. You have nothing to be ashamed of, no one can do everything on their own.

Step three. Rekindle your craft. Say to yourself every  morning that you are living in a bright new world. Today is the beginning of your future. How will you begin? The retail world has changed significantly in the last few years. Use your phone or a cheap digital camera and get your lovely items up on etsy.com. Sell direct. Sell in quantity. You can do this.

Step four. Recognize that it is not money or health or cats that holds you in a relationship that makes you unhappy. Recognize that it is fear. Dive deep into that fear. Examine your shadow side. Examine all the things that frighten you, that anger you, that make you sad or vulnerable. Recognize that your weaknesses and flaws are strengths, too, and then use them to understand what it is you are really wanting and needing to do. Emerge from the dark with a greater understanding of what really makes you tick, and remember that age is just a number, and that you are no closer to dying today than you were at 20. Nothing is certain – live for today. Chase joy. Chase bliss. Don’t wait. Don’t settle. Don’t give up or give in. Remember who you are. Be who you came here to be.

You are blessed.
We love you.
In love and light,
Eden

Share, Open, and Bloom. A Channeled Message about Social Media and World Consciousness from Eden, May 2012

To the world, we say be easy. To the world we say stop fighting for control. We want you to be more open, more giving, more flowing. As this happens the world will shift and flow more easily around you, and old ways can be overcome. The new transparencies, the changes instigated in mass consciousness by social media innovations is incredibly important. As you are all sharing and becoming more vulnerable and less private, you are also becoming less afraid and more giving. As you share your selves, you give of your selves, and as you give of your selves you are being open and honest enough to show you true inner light to the rest of the world. This is a momentous and wonderful thing! The more you see of each other’s fearlessnesses and humble honesties, the more truthful you can all be to your selves. And as you are truthful to your own self, you encourage others to be so as well. You are all leading by your actions, whether you mean to or not. Lately, these actions are, on the whole, inspiring humanity to reach new heights of consciousness. It is truly a new beginning, the dawn of a new age, and the combined light of YOU is dazzling to we beings of light here in the non-physical. YOU are dazzling. It is an awesome sight to behold.

It does not matter whether a person is sharing a liberal belief, a conservative belief, a call to spirituality or a cry for sleep. What matters is that so many now are simply sharing. Opening. Blossoming. Becoming.

Becoming the humanity that is to come, the humanity that is etched into all your DNA, the wonderful physical incarnation of God-SPARK that you all have the ability to be.

As always, we know you are asking us, so what? What now? What’s next? What do we do? Always asking you are, always progressing. And so we joyfully release you to simply continue opening – opening your mouths, your hearts, your minds. Allow yourselves to share without fear. And allow yourselves to receive without fear. Without fear means without judgment. Just share and receive. Give and take. Speak and listen. Let words come and go, thoughts ebb and flow. Don’t worry about what might be bad and what might be good. Just take it all in, and then let it all go. As simple as breathing. In and out, naturally flowing. Learning and growing.

You are beautiful. You are the light of God. You are all, and you are connected. Tuned in and turned on.

We love you.
Eden.