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Overcoming Fear – How to Get Your Life Back Together

Hi Eden,
I feel as if my life is falling apart.  I’m in my sixties, married to mean, belittling person with no money of my own or ability to drive. My home crafting business used to thrive but has fizzled out. I am not physically well, and I care for a large number of feral cats who keep having kittens. I can’t catch them all, and even if I could, I can’t afford to spay any more of them than I already have.
I’m pretty much alone. I haven’t any family or friends.
Any help you can give will be deeply appreciated.
Thank you, N.

Dearest N.,

You are not alone. We see you. We hear you. We love you. And we would say to you that you do not have to do this all alone. You have given so much of yourself, for so long, that you have become an empty cup. For so long, you have cared for everyone else, and done so little for yourself. So the first thing we want you to do is to take some time out today, tomorrow, every day this week and do something that makes you happy. Something you love. Relax. Take a bath. Eat chocolate. Read a romance novel. Window shop. Walk in the woods. Whatever it is that will nurture your soul, do that. That’s step one.

Step two. Call in your angels. Call in your guides. Ask them for what you are needing, ask them for help. Say it out load. Mean it. Call to them. Once you have done that, call in your earth angels. Reach out to your community for help. Find a local no-kill shelter and ask them for help catching the mother cat and spaying her. Re-home the cats you can let go of. Keep the ones that mean everything to you. There are people out there who care as much these cats as you do. Connect with them. Let them help you. You have nothing to be ashamed of, no one can do everything on their own.

Step three. Rekindle your craft. Say to yourself every  morning that you are living in a bright new world. Today is the beginning of your future. How will you begin? The retail world has changed significantly in the last few years. Use your phone or a cheap digital camera and get your lovely items up on etsy.com. Sell direct. Sell in quantity. You can do this.

Step four. Recognize that it is not money or health or cats that holds you in a relationship that makes you unhappy. Recognize that it is fear. Dive deep into that fear. Examine your shadow side. Examine all the things that frighten you, that anger you, that make you sad or vulnerable. Recognize that your weaknesses and flaws are strengths, too, and then use them to understand what it is you are really wanting and needing to do. Emerge from the dark with a greater understanding of what really makes you tick, and remember that age is just a number, and that you are no closer to dying today than you were at 20. Nothing is certain – live for today. Chase joy. Chase bliss. Don’t wait. Don’t settle. Don’t give up or give in. Remember who you are. Be who you came here to be.

You are blessed.
We love you.
In love and light,
Eden

Go out and LIVE! Eden speaks on following your soul purpose.

Dear Eden,
I’ve always naturally been a spiritual person and attracted to the unknown…I worked really hard and felt like my life was in alignment. However, since my father and my youngest brother passed a few years ago, my life seems like it’s turned upside down. I began questioning my life’s path, professional choices, my health, my relationship with others, and my purpose. This year, I began experiencing an awakening and I feel like I need help in what my purpose is and how/where I should be focusing my energy right now to maximize this lifetime. Any help would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!
R.

Dearest R.,
You have always been awake. It has been painful for you when others around you are not, and sometimes you feel like you alone can see the beauty and wonder that surrounds people in your world, that everyone else is blind, asleep. You have often felt alone and saddened because you have so few people to share your truth with.

What we would like to tell you today is that you are not alone. You are never alone. You have come here to being in the strength and courage of other races, from other times, where you have lived. To help this planet adjust and evolve. Your guides are not your typical earthly guides. You are literally surrounded by fairies. All the time! And some “alien” lifeforms who are non-corporeal, these too, often check in on you to try and lend their comfort. You miss the full pleasure of these entities company – they are your home, your family. Not this planet, not these humans, and sometimes you feel their absence like knife in the heart.

You must remember your life purpose.
You came here to be strong.
You came here to be fearless.

You came here, to show others the way so that they too could align with the frequency of strength which you emit. Not everyone can, or will, when you are watching. But you ARE making a difference, just by being you.

We know that you have been wallowing for the last few years. We see how hard it has been for you.

But now is the time to shake off your pain and fear and get on with the business of living. You won’t be here forever, and you have things to do. People to meet. Places to travel.

If there was one thing that is most important for us to tell you today, it is to stop being afraid. You can not fail. You have already succeeded. Even the moments you see as failure, we see as success. You do not know what an impact you have had on the world. Literally, every where you go, your vibration of strength is left behind, imprinted, for others to pick up like a beacon.

You are a lion among sheep.
Start acting like it.

You say you do not know what to do, but we all know that is not true. You know exactly what you would like to do, where you would most like to do, and how you would do it. You dream of it. You’ve journaled about it. You’ve imagined it so many times. What are you waiting for?

Go out and LIVE.

Whatever you are doing that is killing you slowly, day by day? Stop. Do what makes you laugh. What makes you smile. What makes your heart beat.

Do that.
All will be well.
You are blessed.
In light and love, we are one.
Eden